Do You Need a DO-OVER?

In golf, it’s called a “Mulligan”.  It’s a second chance to hit a shot correctly; a “do-over”.  Are you getting many Mulligans in your life?  For most of us, when we make a mistake folks aren’t exactly lining up to say, “Go ahead and try again.  Maybe you’ll make the correct life-choice next time!”  “So what if you failed miserably.  I forgive you!  Go back and tee it up and try again!”  If only it worked like that with people.  Gratefully, it does work like that with God.

The roster of those to whom God gave second chances reads like a Who’s Who of Bible champions:  David, who defeated Goliath and then later committed adultery and murder, but still found forgiveness to lead Israel; Mary Magdalene, who was a prostitute who met Jesus and became a dedicated follower of His; and Saul of Tarsus, later known as Paul, who was complicit in the murders of early Christians, yet became God’s voice to the Gentiles. 

But I want to focus on a lesser known Mulligan – this one for a young man named, John Mark.  Young and impetuous, John Mark is most likely the fellow described in Mark 14:51-52 who was right in the mix of things when Jesus was arrested just outside the Garden of Gethsemane.  He managed to get his cousin, Barnabas, and Paul to take him along as their assistant when they set out to spread the Gospel of Christ (Acts 12:25).  Unfortunately, they didn’t get very far before John Mark abandoned ship.  He left them high and dry and returned home (Acts 13:13).  Can you just imagine the criticism?  Paul saying to Barnabas, “I told you he wasn’t ready for this.  What a disappointment!  You should have never asked me to bother with someone who just wasn’t ready.” 

Well, Barnabas’ name means “son of encouragement”, so you knew John Mark might get another chance.  Barnabas tried to get Paul to take John Mark along on their next trip, but Paul was stubborn and the disagreement even split up the missionary team.  Paul went one way with his new partner, Silas, and Barnabas took John Mark under his wing and headed out in a different direction.  God has a way of using those who are willing to provide those second chances we need.  Barnabas was that guy for John Mark. 

So is that it?  It’s never that simple or boring with God.  When God gives second chances, they really count for something.  Paul writes later in the New Testament:

Aristarchus, my fellow prisoner, greets you, as does Mark, Barnabas’s cousin (concerning whom you have received instructions: if he comes to you, welcome him) (Colossians 4:10)

Well, what have we here?  This is John Mark, the cousin of Barnabas, being mentioned by Paul as being present with him.  But where are they?  John Mark is by Paul’s side while he is captive in a Roman prison.  Not bad for a second chance guy.  Still right in the middle of the action.  But there’s more!  There always is with God.  Years later, Paul wrote to Timothy:

Only Luke is with me. Bring Mark with you, for he is useful to me in the ministry.  (2 Timothy 4:11)

We can see the affection Paul has for John Mark.  The young, impetuous boy has become a man – a man of God.  That’s what second chances do for us. 

But beware!  God isn’t like your friends, or your family, or your co-workers.  Perhaps you’re lucky if you have a second-chance character in your life, like Barnabas.  But most folks are like those you’ve encountered.  Easily hurt and not very forgiving.  Easily disappointed and not interested in wasting time trying to build you into the person you could be.  Since you know what doesn’t work, why not try to be a Barnabas for someone that’s broken the rules of life?  See what a difference you can make.  It’s worth it, especially in the eyes of the “God of second chances”.  Because at some point, John Mark put pen to papyrus and wrote the words we revere as the gospel of Mark – the second book of the New Testament.  When you do get a Mulligan, be like John Mark.  Be sure to hit it straight and true.

Jacob

I Love You. MORE.

“I love you.”  “I love you MORE.”  It’s kind of a thing, to say that now, I guess.  Is it really possible in a relationship for one party to actually love the other more?  While you might think so or not, it’s tough to prove.  So God, in His infinite wisdom, knowing that it might be difficult for us to accept that HE loves us MORE, decided to SHOW us and let us watch.  Let’s look at the scene from Genesis 22:

God tested Abraham and said to him…”Take your son,” He said, “your only son Isaac, whom you love, go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains I will tell you about.” 

Wait a minute!  This is Abraham and Isaac.  This wasn’t a kid WITH promise, this was the child OF promise!  Abraham and his wife, Sarah, had to wait until Abe was 100 years old before God fulfilled His promise of providing a son.  And now, just when Isaac was likely in his teenage years, God is asking for Abraham to return him?  I know what you’re thinking if you have had teenagers, and while you may have thought you could kill your 15-year old, God was really serious about it in Isaac’s case.  So back to the story:

So Abraham got up early in the morning, saddled his donkey, and took with him …his son Isaac. He split wood for a burnt offering and set out to go to the place God had told him about. On the third day Abraham looked up and saw the place in the distance…Abraham took the wood for the burnt offering and laid it on his son Isaac. In his hand he took the fire and the sacrificial knife, and the two of them walked on together.  Then Isaac spoke to his father Abraham and said…”The fire and the wood are here, but where is the lamb for the burnt offering?”

Great question, Isaac!  What would you ask if you were in his place?  “Uh, Dad, what are we going to offer?”  At this point, I think Isaac realized that since his father was more than 110 years old, he could have dropped the wood and run off, and there’d be no way his dad could catch him!  But Isaac was a dutiful and obedient son.  So they journeyed on together.

When they arrived at the place that God had told him about, Abraham built the altar there and arranged the wood. He bound his son Isaac and placed him on the altar on top of the wood. Then Abraham reached out and took the knife to slaughter his son.

OK, this is really going to happen!  But notice that Isaac let it all take place.  He willingly allowed himself to be placed on the wood and offered to God.

But the Angel of the Lord called to him from heaven and said, “Abraham, Abraham!”…“Do not lay a hand on the boy or do anything to him. For now I know that you fear God, since you have not withheld your only son from Me.” 

There you have it.  The Father was going to sacrifice his Son.  For three days as they traveled to Moriah, the Father had been in anguish because his Son had to perish as a sacrifice.  What love the Father had for his Son!  Oh, what love God had for both Abraham and Isaac.  Because here’s the rest of the story:

Abraham looked up and saw a ram caught in the thicket by its horns. So Abraham went and took the ram and offered it as a (sacrifice) in place of his son.

So, did you catch it?  Do you see the picture?  A Father willing to offer His Only Son in sacrifice.  What actually happened in the land of Moriah that day?  A male sheep, crowned with thorns, offered on the wood of sacrifice in place of Isaac, on a mount specified by God Himself.  In case you didn’t know, the land of Moriah is the area later centered around Jerusalem.  And I have no doubt that all this took place on a lofty hill outside where the holy city would someday stand.  A place we now call Calvary.

Did our heavenly Father need to see Abraham go through this to prepare Himself to offer His Only Son for us?  No, but He wanted us to see and understand how it feels.  So we would believe He loves us MORE.

Jacob

Am I Really the Image of God?

There are many things we hear each week at church that remind us that we are accomplishing less than we should be in our quest to be shaped into who God wants us to be.  I don’t know about you, but I often feel inadequate and sometimes ill-prepared to live up to what is expected of me.  Why do I feel that way?  I suppose you wouldn’t know if you’ve never met me, but I’m sure self-image is a large part of my problem and that of others who share the same viewpoint.  Isn’t it unfortunate that our self-image often doesn’t match our REAL image?

Which brings me to my point – Imago Dei.  That’s fancy Latin and it means the “image of God”.  It’s a term that has been in use since long, long ago when people actually used Latin terms.  It’s derived from the text of Genesis 1:26-27:

²⁶ Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” ²⁷ So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 

There you have it, whether you understand it fully or not. You ARE the Imago Dei – the Image of God in the world.  How can that be?  I KNOW me!  I don’t see God in the mirror when I look, I see a flawed, chubby guy with a history of bad decision-making.  Oh sure, there are good things about me, but isn’t it Satan’s job to make me think more about my failures than about my Heavenly Father’s grace and goodness in my life?  It is MY job – and yours – to see myself from God’s perspective, especially after Jesus gave everything to redeem me from all that bad-decision making.  Same for you! 

So, what does it mean that I’m the Imago Dei?  It means I was created to showcase the character of God.  How am I doing at that?  His reputation in the world is related to how I live since I call myself a follower of Jesus.  The Bible passage above says we humans are also supposed to exercise responsibility as we oversee His creation.  I do pretty well at that.  After all, I recycle; isn’t that enough??  Never mind, I already know the answer to that question.  The last piece of the puzzle is that we are ALL called to share in community with God and others.  God wants us to be in a relationship with Him – that’s why Jesus died for our sins, so it could be so.

How does all this look when I actually live as the Imago Dei?  The Bible gives us a clear picture when the writer of Hebrews speaks about Jesus: 

“…in these last days (God has) spoken to us by His Son, whom He has appointed heir of all things, through whom also He made the worlds; ³ who being the brightness of His glory and the express image of His person….”   Hebrews 1:2-3

Jesus was the “brightness” – literally a reflection of God’s glory, and the “express image” (that’s the word “character” in the Greek) of God Himself.  When people saw Jesus, they saw God.  That was the plan all along for Jesus.  But it was also God’s plan all along for me and you – the Imago Dei.  I don’t know about you, but I have some work to do.  Because when people see me, I want them to say, “You know, I see your Father in you.”  The picture won’t be quite as clear as it was with Jesus, but I hope folks can see a little glimpse of God when our lives intersect.  I pray the same for you.

Jacob

Time Shouldn't Be Measured By Clocks...

What do you make of the following conversation?

Alice: “How long is forever?”

White Rabbit: “Sometimes, just one second.”
       by Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Time is a challenging concept for those who believe in eternity.  We spend our lives dividing an infinite expanse of time into measureable seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, seasons, years, and on and on, ad infinitum.  We know there is an eternity behind us and before us, so why do we focus on the itty-bitty increments that divide it?  Why am I so upset if I’m even one minute late for an appointment?  Should I be aggravated when I am the one waiting and the doctor still hasn’t seen me 30 minutes after my appointed time?

Is it possible we get the time pressure from Scripture itself?  James, the brother of Jesus, wrote this warning to us:

“For what is your life? It is…a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.”  (James 4:14)

Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days carefully….”  Though we are told again and again in the Bible that our existence is an eternal one, we are assailed with the reminder that our earthly time is fleeting. 

The key to understanding time, in the Biblical sense, is to realize the New Testament uses TWO words that are translated “time”.  They are chrónos, which refers to “clock time” or time that is measured; and kairós, that speaks more to an “appointed time” or an opportune moment.  Chronos identifies time quantitatively, while Kairos sees time as qualitative.

What’s the difference?  We can personify both words for time by using the story of Mary and Martha from Luke 10:38-42.  Martha was the “busy” sister, fretting about all the things that needed to be done to prepare for a visit by Jesus and his disciples.  Martha operated her life based on chronos, or clock time.  Conversely, Martha’s sister, Mary, saw the opportunity to sit at Jesus’ feet and take in everything that moment in time could offer.  Mary saw time as kairos; a moment to be cherished.

Martha was consumed by the passing of time, while Mary was aware that each moment was to be valued BEFORE it passed.  For those of us whose lives will be spent in eternity, which makes the most sense?  We might as well get used to the idea that there is no chronos in heaven!  EVERY moment there will be a kairos moment. 

Why not practice now?  Can you imagine spending a week or a month with no watch or cell phone to tell you what time it is?  What if you had no calendar to tell you how old you are, and no schedule requiring you to stop doing something you enjoy so you can get to the next meeting or appointment?  It might upset the tidy organization of your days, but I would imagine you’d finally find “the time of your life”.

One day this week, I vow not to look at what the clock says and see what happens.  Want to join me?

Jacob