Since Mother’s Day
is just around the corner and that’s the designated day to honor the women in
our lives, I thought I’d get this out there in advance to both pay tribute to
my female readers and encourage the male participants to be proactive. The slightly provocative title is not chosen
to spur some erotic adventure, but to honor my wife’s favorite color – taupe. If you were to look through her closet, you’d
find garments consistent with the title, along with a few black and white
ones. Her philosophy of decorating, both
for her personal adornment and for our residence, is to use earthy tones as a
background punctuated by splashes of color.
As I consider her plan, it seems God used the same strategy with the
earth and its people – shades of taupe with splashes of color – so it must be a
pretty good design approach!
In a time when
many people seem to want to put all their “business” out there in cyber space, I
find subtlety – the “taupe-iness” of personality – a preferred virtue, and my
wife is filled with the quiet grace to qualify.
By contrast, those personas, that if they could be described by colors
such as bright red, or neon orange, or electric blue, are a bit disconcerting
for me. I much prefer taupe. It’s my contention that the writer of
Proverbs does, too. Here are a few
excerpts from Proverbs 31:
Who can find a capable wife? She is far
more precious than jewels. The heart of
her husband trusts in her, and he will not lack anything good. She rewards him with good, not evil, all
the days of her life. She …works
with willing hands…she…provides…for her household. She draws on her strength and reveals that
her arms are strong. She sees
that her profits are good…Her hands reach out to the poor, and she
extends her hands to the needy. She
is not afraid for her household…
Strength and honor are her clothing, and she
can laugh at the time to come. She
opens her mouth with wisdom and loving instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the activities of her household
and is never idle.
“Many women are capable, but you surpass them all!” Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting,
but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
Nothing
lipstick-red about that woman. Just
hard-working, generous, strong, compassionate, prepared, wise, gracious, and
productive. Oh, and filled with
faith. That, my dear friends, is a
life-palette to be honored.
God is
less concerned with the quality of our “selfies” than He is with the character
of our hearts. So to all the mothers,
grandmothers, sisters, and daughters, I offer both prayers and praise for your
strong lives and godly examples. Men,
get it together! If the women in your
lives are setting the pace by being Proverbs 31 women, the least you can do is try to keep up! And don’t forget the
cards and flowers. Maybe even a nice
outfit? I’ve heard you can’t go wrong
with taupe….
Thankful
for the wonderful women in my life,
Jacob